I want to tell you a story about when I was a young boy going to school. You know, I didn't mind school too much, but in those days I was very envious of the school. The full story about why procrastinators routinely ruin their own lives. Right at the beginning we felt a connection but he told me he was not ready for a relationship. Then he added me on Facebook, invited me to his graduation party and on a ski vacation. We had a great time but sometimes he’d become distant with me. When we came back, he stayed over and we cuddled watching a movie.
We’ve been texting since but when I invited him to my birthday party, he suddenly went silent and I haven’t heard from him in 3 days. Is he into me or not?- Nadine. Dear Nadine,Talk about hot and cold! Men think women are the complicated one’s who are mysterious and give mixed confusing signals. What they don’t realize is that they can come across just as confusing and misleading! Stephen Hawking said in a recent interview that there is no God. Here are 5 reasons why he's wrong. However, you, my dear, have come to right place because I happen to be an expert in interpreting confusing men. I know a few a things about this guy and I promise I’ll fill you in. He said that he’s not ready for a relationship. So many women hear these words and don’t give them the respect they deserve. Instead, they file them away under, “That’s how he’ll feel until he gets to know me and I change his mind” #muahaha#masterplan. But if that’s the last you heard on the subject, THAT’s what you need to assume until he says otherwise. Please don’t feel bad. He enjoys your company, he likes you, and he’s attracted to you. I’m sure of all these things. BUT that doesn’t mean he’s changed his mind. A man can “like” you and still not want to commit to you. The Play- by- Play. At this moment his behavior seems totally random and sporadic. His mood swings are well on their way to giving you whiplash. I get it. But there's actually a very thoughtful method to his confusing hot and cold madness. Let me take it play- by- play: In the beginning, he felt safe being friends with you after setting his boundary so he befriended you on Facebook. After all, he knew, YOU knew, he was off limits. As you picked up the friendship, he enjoyed hanging out with you and he felt the intimacy and connection between you grow. You were moving closer to him, but more specifically closer to his B- O- U- N- D- A- R- Y. Right now, he is in a pickle. He likes and respects you too much to “hit it and quit it.” I know this because most guys who admire, enjoy, and are sexually attracted to a woman who not only likes them back but cuddles with them during a movie, well, most guys would tap that. And I know we haven’t talked about it in awhile but I want you to know that I totally respect that you aren’t looking for a relationship right now. But please don’t feel any pressure like I’m looking for a relationship with you. I enjoy my time with you. I hope you can make it to my birthday party. You’re a friend I look forward to getting to know better and it would make me really happy if you could swing by.”See? There’s no heavy or “serious” talk there. You have let him know your honest intentions: you ARE looking for a relationship. That’s nothing to hide or be ashamed of. This message, however, lets him know that should he change his mind, you are available. More importantly, it also lets him off the hook. He won’t have to keep you at arms length to keep the boundary clear. He can feel free to come to your birthday party, cuddle and hang with you without feeling pressured for some sort of commitment to you. The big fear he has is that he’s going to lead you on and let you down. He really likes you and he really doesn’t want to do this. That’s why he’s acting so sporadic. Now, if you are NOT okay having just a friendship with him, then let him go. He’s not ready to be who you need him to be right now. Many men are looking to be in a relationship RIGHT NOW. They’re looking for you too. With love,Lauren. Now, I’d love to hear from you. Have you ever heard a man say, “I’m not interested in relationship” and went on pretending like he did anyway? How did that work out? Did he change his mind? How do YOU handle men who aren’t clear with their intentions? If you loved this advice, please share it with your friends! Click to tweet: How to interpret a man's hot and cold behavior to tell if he's into you or not. Patriots Question 9/1. Responsible Criticism of the 9/1. Commission Reporthttp: //www. Cole – Former Intelligence Operations Specialist, in the FBI’s Counterintelligence Division. Mark Conrad, JD – Retired Agent in Charge, Internal Affairs, U. S. Customs, responsible for the internal integrity and security for areas encompassing nine states and two foreign locations. Dew – Former Supervisory Special Agent, Counterterrorism and Counterintelligence, FBI. Bogdan Dzakovic – Witness before the 9/1. Commission. Edmonds – Witness before the 9/1. Commission. Specialist in Counterterrorism, Intelligence, and Security. Security Analyst, Boyd. Forbes, Inc. Melvin A. Goodman – Former Division Chief and Senior Analyst at the Office of Soviet Affairs, CIA,1. He is the author and co- author of five books on international relations. Graham – Retired Special Agent, Counterintelligence, FBI. Diane Kleiman – Former Special Agent, US Customs. Lt. Kwiatkowski, Ph. D, U. S. Air Force (ret) – Former Political- Military Affairs Officer in the Office of the Secretary of Defense. Also served on the staff of the Director of the National Security Agency. Air Force veteran. Larkin – Former CIA Operations Officer. Marine Corps. Raymond L. Mc. Govern – Former Chairman, National Intelligence Estimates, CIA, responsible for preparing the President’ Daily Brief (PDB) for Ronald Reagan and George H. W. Army Intelligence Officer. Pahle – Former Senior Intelligence Officer with the Defense Intelligence Agency. Sullivan – Retired Special Agent and Risk Management Specialist, FAA. Navy (ret) – Former Deputy Program Manager for Logistics – Tomahawk Cruise Missiles. Turner – Retired Special Agent, FBI. Vincent – Retired Special Agent, Counterterrorism, FBI. Army Intelligence Officer. Army (ret) – Retired Army officer and former U. S. Army and 1. 6 years in the U. S. 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